tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3857009478210209961.post1695112135502561146..comments2023-06-06T09:28:19.418-07:00Comments on Triplets: Joycehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00828095921671264066noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3857009478210209961.post-90162033654164923372010-12-10T05:03:39.388-08:002010-12-10T05:03:39.388-08:00Hang in there, things will look up. That is great ...Hang in there, things will look up. That is great about her weight, It took over a year for Elijah to even "make it" on the charts! So you are doing great! I'm glad her heart is looking better, my cousin had a hole in her heart as a child and she came through the surgery well. She will get off the oxygen soon, is she on a apnea monitor? Elijah had one and I kept him on it until he was 6 months corrected, helped with the worry about SIDS. I understand about being "jealous" sad to say that part doesn't go away, I can look at twins now and think how cute, I have yet to see a set of triplets, I don't know how I will take that. There is always that part of me that thinks, why did my babies have to die, and why does Elijah have to be without without his brothers.... Hang in there girl, the first year home is the hardest! It does get better, I promise!Denisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00075033775780048055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3857009478210209961.post-67394289507074053072010-12-09T22:25:14.359-08:002010-12-09T22:25:14.359-08:00Mishael-- Just wanted to say I'm thinking of y...Mishael-- Just wanted to say I'm thinking of you... I'm delighted to hear you are now getting to experience some of the baby things with Ellina that thrill the spirit, and not just all the work! :/ I think what you are doing, talking about all the babies, is absolutely essential for your healing. No, you aren't the only mom who's ever experienced loss, but you ARE the only mom who experienced these particular ones, and you are affected! You are supported. You are loved. Be in the space where you need to be, right now. As the saying goes: those who matter won't mind and those who mind don't matter. <br /><br />My t&p are with you and the fam entire. And, btw, I love the thought of Emmalin and Ellianna giving the certain joy only very young babies can, to all your kinfolk and loved ones in heaven. How wonderful to know they'll be waiting for you! :)) xx-- AmyMountain Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01925890773972266513noreply@blogger.com